Following the explosive Oprah interview, people expected that Harry & Meghan might include scathing accusations about the Royal family, the media, and the people who surround them. But it was quite the opposite. Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, sat down to tell their love story on their terms versus the way their relationship has been portrayed in the media to date.
The first three episodes did touch on a few controversial topics, including calling out the media and the longstanding, unwritten terms between the very publications that insulted Meghan and the Royal family, and tormented Harry and his family since he was a child. There were also conversations about racism and antiquated traditions. But the docuseries is by and large a story about how the two met, fell in love, and the media attention, unconscious bias, racism, and preconceived notions about Meghan that plagued them from the moment their relationship was revealed.
With that said, a few of the details the pair revealed were contrary to what the public had thought up to this point and provided a different perspective on what the two have endured. Three more episodes are coming on December 15, but for now, here’s a look at some of the most fascinating revelations from Harry & Meghan.
They met on Instagram
Fans have long wondered how the two came to meet one another. The story has often been that it was through a mutual friend, and this is true. However, it was technically social media. After seeing a photo of Meghan on a friend’s Snapchat account, he inquired about who she was and asked for contact information to reach out to her on Instagram. The pair began talking from there, met for a quick drink one night, and the rest is history.
Their third ‘date’ was in Botswana
After meeting twice and spending countless hours communicating online, the pair could not make their schedules jibe to meet in person again. When Harry invited Meghan to join him in Botswana, a place he visited often, he was shocked when she agreed. She met with him to stay in a tent for several days on what was technically the couple’s third date.
Meghan recalls that it was the best way for the couple to get to know one another, away from public scrutiny. (The public did not yet know they were dating at the time). There was no cell reception, no mirrors, no fancy red carpets or walkabouts. It was here that the two presumably fell in love. “We could both just be completely ourselves,” said Meghan. “Thank you, we really liked each other.”
UK media paid Meghan’s neighbors to put cameras in their backyard
After the news of their relationship went public, the paparazzi began relentlessly following Megan where she was living at the time in Toronto, Ontario Canada. So much so, in fact, that fences had to be built around the trailers on the set of the show she was on at the time, Suits. She revealed that paparazzi parked outside of her home waiting for her to come outside to snap photos and even follow her.
But worse, she mentioned that UK media outlets paid some of her neighbors to secretly set up live streaming cameras in her backyard (or at least facing her backyard) so they could potentially get a glimpse of her outside or inside the house to publish in a tabloid .
The Kensington Palace interview what an ‘orchestrated reality show’
While it might not come as much of a surprise, it was shocking, nonetheless, to hear the couple admit that the post-engagement interview they did with the BBC at Kensington Palace was completely controlled and rehearsed. So much so, in fact, that Meghan refers to it as an “orchestrated reality show.”
She adds that the couple was not allowed to tell its true story but was rather relegated to touching on the talking points the Kensington Palace official agreed on, and nothing more. It’s for this very reason, the pair add, that this docuseries is being released; they can finally tell the story they have wanted to tell on their own terms.
She became close with her niece
One of the most prominent people speaking out against Meghan was her half-sister Samantha. With a 17-year age gap between them (Samantha is Meghan’s father’s daughter from a previous relationship), Meghan asserts that they were never close growing up. However, Samantha told the media a different story.
In Harry & Meghan, however, Samantha’s biological daughter Ashleigh discusses the situation. She reveals that she was raised by her paternal grandparents after being removed from her biological mother’s care at the age of 6 (though she does not go into detail as to why). She claims to have reconnected with her mother in her 20s and connected with Meghan around the same time as well. The two grew up close, even vacationing together.
But when Samantha began spreading stories, Meghan claims she had to make the difficult phone call to Ashleigh to explain why she could not invite her to the wedding. “I was hurt on some level,” said Ashleigh, “but I understood where it was coming from.” Speaking about her mother Samantha, Ashleigh said that “what was communicated to me was maybe some resentment.”
Meghan’s father and the tabloids
Along with Meghan’s half-sister Samantha, another vocal member of her family with the tabloids was her father Thomas. It began with a few obviously staged photos and a phone call to her father to ask if he was paid to pose for them. After that, Meghan claims she didn’t hear from him, then learned from tabloids that he had a heart attack and would not be attending her wedding.
Meghan asserts that she and Harry reached out several times to her father both through phone calls and texts, and eventually received a cryptic message back. Meghan believes the message was not actually sent by her father, notably due to the different styling (he loved to use emojis, ellipses, and “dot, dot dots,” she said) and mainly because it addressed her as “Meghan” when her father had only ever called her “Meg.”
Based on Harry’s commentary about how Meghan has since “lost a father” and that he “shoulders that burden” because if she hadn’t met him, she would still have a relationship with him, it appears the two still don’t talk.
The Harry & Meghan docuseries is available to stream on Netflixwith three additional episodes launching on December 15.
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